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[caption id="attachment_4261" align="alignnone" width="300"] Brad and Angelina affair. 5 of my Top Tips to Ways to stop your husband cheating[/caption] In light of Brads alleged affair I was inspired to post...

In light of the recent cheating celebrity scandals I thought I would shed some light on some of the reasons people cheat. I want to highlight one of my favourite quotes by Buddha which is prevalent here: ‘We are shaped by our thoughts we become what we...

Can you cheat online? Where do you draw the line? What do you consider cheating in a monogamous relationship? There are 3 scenarios to consider from the list below: -       Which of the below situations do you consider you would be being unfaithful? -       Which of the below...

This blog post is inspired by an exciting debate last night with Chelsea Krost about ‘Defining Relationships’. These questions amongst other were asked. Opinions in 140 characters are challenging so I’d like to explore them further here on my blog…. 1)     Lets start by talking about...

Reports the Daily Mail… I wonder if Kelly has ever watched that film Hes Not That Into You… Look at the body language in the photos below. In both photos he is making sure that he is not connected to Kelly in any way. It’s all Kelly trying to drape herself over him and maintain some sort of contact. You could take her out of either photos and it would look like he was on his own. In the last photo it looks odd and uncomfortable for her that he doesn’t have his arm around her.  He’s put his arm behind him in an attempt to gently encourage Kelly’s arm away and avoid being pulled in. It’s showing he would be quite happy on his own in either scenario. He’s implying that Kelly’s presence is irrelevant to him. His torso is towards the camera, showing he’s confident to the point of arrogance, independent and loving the lime light. His smile is forced, fixed and fake in both photos. In this instance this suggests he’s not a genuine person. When there is a connection you both lean into each other and sometimes mirror each other. See the post I did here on Millie Mackintosh and Professor Green. Spot the difference? Now that is a couple in love. These guys are a world apart. Kelly’s obviously hurting but calling and texting Danny’s women is not productive. They don’t care about him, so they won’t feel the hurt Kelly is feeling. In fact by messaging his other women she is detracting away from the real problem – Him! She is fueling her own anger and hurt. The best thing she could do now is walk away and never speak to him again, but I doubt she will because she wants to change him and believes she can. After all it’s not Danny’s fault he can’t resist sexting other women is it, it’s those pesky women!
This Morning ran an interesting debate yesterday in light of Grant Bovey’s affair about whether Anthea Turner was to blame for his infidelity and if in general women are to blame for their men’s infidelity. In some cases yes women are to blame. Uk viewers can watch the clip (for a limited time) here: http://www.itv.com/thismorning/life/should-woman-ever-take-blame-for-husbands-affair/ This couple are not a great example to use for this debate, as I’ve already discussed their relationship here… http://www.infidelityexpert.co.uk/infidelity/anthea-turner-and-grant-bovey-break-up/ They were both married when they got together. The only reason that Anthea is accepting responsibility is because of guilt. She publically initially when he cheated said that she now knew how ‘the other woman’ felt. These are two people that haven’t a clue about fidelity! My opinion is this – whilst Angela Epinstein makes some great valid points, I am tired of hearing that men cannot help their cheating ‘it’s in their DNA’ from caveman times. We have evolved as human beings and are no longer in cave men times; in the Uk we are not in a society where we are forced into marriage. By giving this excuse it really is giving men a green light to cheat and leading them to believe that they don’t have to take responsibility for their choices and actions.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2187572/Anthea-Turner-agrees-meet-estranged-husband-Grant-Bovey-crisis-talks.html I don’t have any sympathy with this couple. Anthea was having an affair with Grant when they were both in relationships. I’m a firm believer in Kama and don’t believe anything good comes of relationships that are born out of deceit and infidelity. Even if...

Lord exposes Sir Fred Goodwin super-injunction in Parliament - The Daily Telegraph

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A man thinking with his nether region can be dangerous; Rationality and consequence go out of the window, and to be making big decisions he will not have been thinking clearly, because sex, especially in the context of an affair, will be giving him the thrill and excitement and cause major distraction.  His mind will be wandering to sex even more than usual. A man thinking about extra marital sex and acting upon sexual urges has a complete lack of self-control, and shouldn’t be making any big decisions that could prove wreckless. Because the affair was in his work place, his mind may never have been 100% on the job. This isn't the case for all men, it depends on the individual - but it can happen.

Reference...  Top Gear's Jeremy Clarkson cheats on wife with pretty blonde during show tour - Daily Mirror

So the latest celebrity Jeremy Clarkson is allegedly reported for cheating with his wife of 18 years. Is this a shock? Not to me. Do I think any less of him? No. I will certainly still be watching the only ‘girl friendly’ car show that is  - Top Gear.

Having worked as an escort for 10 years it’s a tale I have heard many times; that guys get lonely when they travel.  Probably even more so if they are in a long term marriage; where they are more like ‘friends’ or business acquaintances’ than husband and wife.  Where that initial lust and sexual attraction may have faded on both sides. This in my opinion makes people crave intimacy more.

As an escort when I used to see married men, I often thought that there were probably many wives that suspected their men were having affairs or seeing escorts, but they actually were happy that they were because it kept them from being pestered for sex by their husbands. So they turned a blind eye.