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This Morning ran an interesting debate yesterday in light of Grant Bovey’s affair about whether Anthea Turner was to blame for his infidelity and if in general women are to blame for their men’s infidelity. In some cases yes women are to blame. Uk viewers can watch the clip (for a limited time) here: http://www.itv.com/thismorning/life/should-woman-ever-take-blame-for-husbands-affair/ This couple are not a great example to use for this debate, as I’ve already discussed their relationship here… http://www.infidelityexpert.co.uk/infidelity/anthea-turner-and-grant-bovey-break-up/ They were both married when they got together. The only reason that Anthea is accepting responsibility is because of guilt. She publically initially when he cheated said that she now knew how ‘the other woman’ felt. These are two people that haven’t a clue about fidelity! My opinion is this – whilst Angela Epinstein makes some great valid points, I am tired of hearing that men cannot help their cheating ‘it’s in their DNA’ from caveman times. We have evolved as human beings and are no longer in cave men times; in the Uk we are not in a society where we are forced into marriage. By giving this excuse it really is giving men a green light to cheat and leading them to believe that they don’t have to take responsibility for their choices and actions.
21 March, 2013

Have you ever wondered why the Strictly Come Dancing and Dancing on Ice dancers end up having flings or relationships with their dance partner contestants in real life? Find out my thoughts in this weeks Reveal magasine. http://www.reveal.co.uk/...

11 March, 2013

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2187572/Anthea-Turner-agrees-meet-estranged-husband-Grant-Bovey-crisis-talks.html I don’t have any sympathy with this couple. Anthea was having an affair with Grant when they were both in relationships. I’m a firm believer in Kama and don’t believe anything good comes of relationships that are born out of deceit and infidelity. Even if...

16 August, 2012
Last weeks Grazia magazine had an article about a couple (Mark and Kirsty) who only have sex 3 times a year because they are so stressed about their lack of money. I was deeply concerned at the reference that this is ‘normal’ for couples in there 30’s. Mark and Kirsty’s marriage is in complete crisis and they both seem oblivious. They seem content (in my opinion – naïve) with the fact that they assume that everything will be back on track once they have money. I understand and empathise that they have deep financial worries however it’s no excuse to lose their intimacy and connection. They still eat because they need to survive, they still look after their son, because he needs to survive too, but they also need intimacy for their relationship to survive so why have they let it go in times of such dire crisis? This is when it’s needed the most!....
25 May, 2012

Lord exposes Sir Fred Goodwin super-injunction in Parliament - The Daily Telegraph

One side…

A man thinking with his nether region can be dangerous; Rationality and consequence go out of the window, and to be making big decisions he will not have been thinking clearly, because sex, especially in the context of an affair, will be giving him the thrill and excitement and cause major distraction.  His mind will be wandering to sex even more than usual. A man thinking about extra marital sex and acting upon sexual urges has a complete lack of self-control, and shouldn’t be making any big decisions that could prove wreckless. Because the affair was in his work place, his mind may never have been 100% on the job. This isn't the case for all men, it depends on the individual - but it can happen.

20 May, 2011

Reference...  Top Gear's Jeremy Clarkson cheats on wife with pretty blonde during show tour - Daily Mirror

So the latest celebrity Jeremy Clarkson is allegedly reported for cheating with his wife of 18 years. Is this a shock? Not to me. Do I think any less of him? No. I will certainly still be watching the only ‘girl friendly’ car show that is  - Top Gear.

Having worked as an escort for 10 years it’s a tale I have heard many times; that guys get lonely when they travel.  Probably even more so if they are in a long term marriage; where they are more like ‘friends’ or business acquaintances’ than husband and wife.  Where that initial lust and sexual attraction may have faded on both sides. This in my opinion makes people crave intimacy more.

As an escort when I used to see married men, I often thought that there were probably many wives that suspected their men were having affairs or seeing escorts, but they actually were happy that they were because it kept them from being pestered for sex by their husbands. So they turned a blind eye.

04 April, 2011

I had an interesting conversation with a guy in the escort business the other day. I was discussing my new book 'Why Husbands Stray', and he said to me 'well it's not straying' meaning guys booking escorts, and his reason was because it wasn't an...

12 March, 2011
The first thing I want to say is... women cheat too! Ok? I knew you were thinking it ;-p I don't know or care who cheats more, there's many cheaters in both sexes. The reason my new book is titled Why Husband's Stray, and NOT Why Women or People Cheat (as some people suggested), is because my experience as an escort for ten years meant that I dated hundreds of men many of whom were married or in relationships, so my personal experience is with cheating men.
03 March, 2011
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