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Infidelity

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2187572/Anthea-Turner-agrees-meet-estranged-husband-Grant-Bovey-crisis-talks.html I don’t have any sympathy with this couple. Anthea was having an affair with Grant when they were both in relationships. I’m a firm believer in Kama and don’t believe anything good comes of relationships that are born out of deceit and infidelity. Even if...

http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/us-gossip/kristen-stewart-issues-public-apology-1168958 Once again more Hollywood couples have succumbed to the temptations of infidelity. So what do their statements say about them? Kristen - 'I'm deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment I've caused to those close to me and everyone this has affected. This momentary indiscretion has jeopardised the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I'm so sorry.' Kristen’s first line is ‘the’ standard line for infidelity. It’s empty. Statements generally are contrived, impersonal and lack feeling and sincerity and emotion. However, she is focusing on how others feel and not on herself, which is a positive thing. The only personal thing here is that she’s mentioned her partner by name and her last sentence does show some remorse. But as with all infidelity, is it remorse at what she’s done, or remorse that she has been found out? She has played down the affair and is keen to mention that it was a ‘momentary indiscretion’, to imply that this was an impulsive affair and there were no feelings involved. Her use of the word ‘jeopardise’ means she is fully aware of the value of her partner and what was at stake here. In my opinion, although contrived, Kristen’s is the more heartfelt statement as she accepts responsibility for her actions, unlike Rupert....
Reference: http://www.dailystar.co.uk/posts/view/260395 I empathise with both parties in the Myleene Klass and Graham Quinn break up. Everyone is quick to judge without really knowing what the facts are. Once again the ‘other woman’ is being blamed for a marriage split. When are people going to take responsibility for their own marriages and their success/failure? I realize it’s easy for people to blame the other woman, but do they not see that it is excusing any bad behaviour on the man’s part? There are still no solid facts that he was having an affair, at the moment it’s rumours, so he and Sarah Robinson are being unfairly judged. A possible rumour that I read in one paper was that Myleene was sleeping with her children in her marital bed as well as Graham. If this story is true then I am not surprised he wanted out. Once children are in the marital bed, in most cases it’s a slippery slope to marriage/relationship destruction. Their sex life would be pretty much none existent. Hopefully this wasn’t true. However clearly there were problems in their relationship and it’s sad that they weren’t picked up on, addressed and dealt with. Many couples either both or one party, choose to put their head in the sand and ignore problems.

Lord exposes Sir Fred Goodwin super-injunction in Parliament - The Daily Telegraph

One side…

A man thinking with his nether region can be dangerous; Rationality and consequence go out of the window, and to be making big decisions he will not have been thinking clearly, because sex, especially in the context of an affair, will be giving him the thrill and excitement and cause major distraction.  His mind will be wandering to sex even more than usual. A man thinking about extra marital sex and acting upon sexual urges has a complete lack of self-control, and shouldn’t be making any big decisions that could prove wreckless. Because the affair was in his work place, his mind may never have been 100% on the job. This isn't the case for all men, it depends on the individual - but it can happen.

Premier League star who cheated with Imogen Thomas told his secret is safe as court tightens injunction

Read more: http://www.mirror.co.uk/

I am sick to death of hearing about cheating footballers. Who the hell do they think they are? Rumour has it is a well known fellow Welsh man.

So do I believe these people have the right to super injunctions? NO. I think they should be named and shamed.  Otherwise it's a big green light to carry on treating their wives and familes with disrespect. If you are a celebrity or someone in the public eye, you have to take the rough with the smooth. And press good or bad is part of the package. These type of cheaters will carry on cheating. They make a mockery of marriage. I find little sympathy for those women who stay in these marriages, even for the sake of the kids. How is it a good example to show your children that cheating is acceptable.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1370680/Peter-Crouch-visited-22-year-old-air-hostesss-apartment-Dubai-3am.html

Hmmmmm, if she wanted to 'fetch something' from her apartment why did Peter even go in?

I think in this case nothing probably happened, but why do footballers get themselves in such situations? Is it arrogance? I can do what I like because I earn stupid amounts of money, or is it because they are stereotypically 'not all that bright'? I believe that Peter is actually quite intelligent, so I can only assume it's the former - arrogance.

People like Peter, Ashley Cole, David Beckham and Wayne Rooney, selfishly disrespect and humiliate their women time after time, and yet these women still seem to have their rosy tinted glasses on. Is it the unwritten code that if you get involved with a footballer you have to accept that he cheats? And become a submissive Stepford Wife - turning a blind eye to their cheating, whilst hoping he doesn't get rumbled by the press, and if he does, praying it goes away quickly? Because it seems to me that these women accept this behaviour. It's no wonder they keep doing it.

Reference...  Top Gear's Jeremy Clarkson cheats on wife with pretty blonde during show tour - Daily Mirror

So the latest celebrity Jeremy Clarkson is allegedly reported for cheating with his wife of 18 years. Is this a shock? Not to me. Do I think any less of him? No. I will certainly still be watching the only ‘girl friendly’ car show that is  - Top Gear.

Having worked as an escort for 10 years it’s a tale I have heard many times; that guys get lonely when they travel.  Probably even more so if they are in a long term marriage; where they are more like ‘friends’ or business acquaintances’ than husband and wife.  Where that initial lust and sexual attraction may have faded on both sides. This in my opinion makes people crave intimacy more.

As an escort when I used to see married men, I often thought that there were probably many wives that suspected their men were having affairs or seeing escorts, but they actually were happy that they were because it kept them from being pestered for sex by their husbands. So they turned a blind eye.

I had an interesting conversation with a guy in the escort business the other day. I was discussing my new book 'Why Husbands Stray', and he said to me 'well it's not straying' meaning guys booking escorts, and his reason was because it wasn't an...