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Author: Rebecca Dakin

According to a report in the Daily Mail, women who wear red in their online dating profile photos are likely to get more messages and dates than those wearing any other colour, a new book reveals. So if women should wear red what colours should men wear for their profiles? Well it depends on what trait of their personality they want to portray…
22 March, 2013
This Morning ran an interesting debate yesterday in light of Grant Bovey’s affair about whether Anthea Turner was to blame for his infidelity and if in general women are to blame for their men’s infidelity. In some cases yes women are to blame. Uk viewers can watch the clip (for a limited time) here: http://www.itv.com/thismorning/life/should-woman-ever-take-blame-for-husbands-affair/ This couple are not a great example to use for this debate, as I’ve already discussed their relationship here… http://www.infidelityexpert.co.uk/infidelity/anthea-turner-and-grant-bovey-break-up/ They were both married when they got together. The only reason that Anthea is accepting responsibility is because of guilt. She publically initially when he cheated said that she now knew how ‘the other woman’ felt. These are two people that haven’t a clue about fidelity! My opinion is this – whilst Angela Epinstein makes some great valid points, I am tired of hearing that men cannot help their cheating ‘it’s in their DNA’ from caveman times. We have evolved as human beings and are no longer in cave men times; in the Uk we are not in a society where we are forced into marriage. By giving this excuse it really is giving men a green light to cheat and leading them to believe that they don’t have to take responsibility for their choices and actions.
21 March, 2013
So why do Dancing On Ice and Strictly Come Dancing Stars end up in relationships with their dance partners? With Latin American dances like Mambo, which is sensual and emotional, Cha Cha that’s lively and flirtatious and full of passion and energy, the sensual, powerful Tango, and the romantic, sensual Rumba, it’s hardly surprising that sparks fly between dancing partners. In fact for the performances to be believed, and the high scores achieved, like actors, the performers have to fully immerse themselves in their role, and for these dances or dances inspired by them, it is the roll of a lover. Many famous actors and actresses have fallen in love through playing roles as lovers; Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn in the 80’s film Swing Shift, Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton famously met on Cleopatra and more recently Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie got together on the set of Mr. and Mrs. Smith. In ice skating many of the dances and performances are inspired by ballroom dancing. However with any type of dancing with a partner connection and rapport are essential.
16 March, 2013

Have you ever wondered why the Strictly Come Dancing and Dancing on Ice dancers end up having flings or relationships with their dance partner contestants in real life? Find out my thoughts in this weeks Reveal magasine. http://www.reveal.co.uk/...

11 March, 2013
Can I kiss you? You don’t ask you just do, when the mutual chemistry and desire is there. And if you get rejected - it’s her loss! This blog has been inspired by one of my girlfriends. She had been on a few dates with this guy and wasn’t sure if she fancied him but knew there was something there. He dropped a few hints about being invited in for coffee and eventually because he wasn’t sure how she felt he asked her if he could kiss her. This immediately killed the moment, and any spontaneity and made my friend feel uncomfortable. She mumbled a ‘no’ because she was so embarrassed, then he said, “Can I at least have a hug?” Awkward! She admitted that if he had been assertive enough to just go for it, she would have kissed him. To ask for permission means that you obviously don’t think it’s the right time. Guys you might think you’re coming across as ‘caring about her feelings’ and not wanting to ‘make her feel uncomfortable’ but it’s the opposite it makes someone feel uncomfortable and you come across as though you are unsure of yourself, unconfident, weak, fearful (of rejection); none of which are attractive to women.
27 February, 2013
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2271888/ Dear readers, Wow I wasn’t expecting so many people to take the time to reply to my article. Thank you! I don't know where the 900 men came from but I guess it makes the article stand out! I have been on around that many dates, but most of my business was from regulars, so this isn't accurate. For those that have written kind messages of support and have emailed me privately, my thanks to you for having an open mind and not judging me. Many people are quick to judge, as we see here. However what I find of interest is the term prostitute. Have people considered that to put a value on sex is not shameful it is showing a level of self-respect. And that’s not to say that those that don’t charge for it don’t have that, but for those being promiscuous I think it’s pretty savvy to make money from sex and a hell of a lot safer! In The Girlfriend Experience I discuss how many girls and guys go out at a weekend get incredibly drunk and go to their home and sleep with a stranger, a choice they are making because they are intoxicated. This is incredibly dangerous. I used to tell my parents where I was, who I was with and when I would be back. I’d stay at hotels where people had to provide the hotel with a credit card to secure their stay. I’d be seen by security cameras and hotel staff going in and out of the hotel, yet drunken women leave their friends on a night out, don’t tell anyone where they are going and sleep with a random stranger and come morning they can’t remember if they had sex or not. I would have a civilized meal and drink with a gentleman and then have private time with them. So if you had to pick, who should feel shameful?
06 February, 2013
Why Too Many compliments don’t work… After watching the last couple of series of Take Me Out I have been promising this post, because many guys fell into this trap. It’s long over due. Guys when you give a woman too many compliments you rightly or wrongly come across as: -       needy -       having low self esteem -       desperate -       having a lack of confidence -       a wimp -       not genuine -       being in awe
07 January, 2013
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