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Author: Rebecca Dakin

Can I kiss you? You don’t ask you just do, when the mutual chemistry and desire is there. And if you get rejected - it’s her loss! This blog has been inspired by one of my girlfriends. She had been on a few dates with this guy and wasn’t sure if she fancied him but knew there was something there. He dropped a few hints about being invited in for coffee and eventually because he wasn’t sure how she felt he asked her if he could kiss her. This immediately killed the moment, and any spontaneity and made my friend feel uncomfortable. She mumbled a ‘no’ because she was so embarrassed, then he said, “Can I at least have a hug?” Awkward! She admitted that if he had been assertive enough to just go for it, she would have kissed him. To ask for permission means that you obviously don’t think it’s the right time. Guys you might think you’re coming across as ‘caring about her feelings’ and not wanting to ‘make her feel uncomfortable’ but it’s the opposite it makes someone feel uncomfortable and you come across as though you are unsure of yourself, unconfident, weak, fearful (of rejection); none of which are attractive to women.
27 February, 2013
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2271888/ Dear readers, Wow I wasn’t expecting so many people to take the time to reply to my article. Thank you! I don't know where the 900 men came from but I guess it makes the article stand out! I have been on around that many dates, but most of my business was from regulars, so this isn't accurate. For those that have written kind messages of support and have emailed me privately, my thanks to you for having an open mind and not judging me. Many people are quick to judge, as we see here. However what I find of interest is the term prostitute. Have people considered that to put a value on sex is not shameful it is showing a level of self-respect. And that’s not to say that those that don’t charge for it don’t have that, but for those being promiscuous I think it’s pretty savvy to make money from sex and a hell of a lot safer! In The Girlfriend Experience I discuss how many girls and guys go out at a weekend get incredibly drunk and go to their home and sleep with a stranger, a choice they are making because they are intoxicated. This is incredibly dangerous. I used to tell my parents where I was, who I was with and when I would be back. I’d stay at hotels where people had to provide the hotel with a credit card to secure their stay. I’d be seen by security cameras and hotel staff going in and out of the hotel, yet drunken women leave their friends on a night out, don’t tell anyone where they are going and sleep with a random stranger and come morning they can’t remember if they had sex or not. I would have a civilized meal and drink with a gentleman and then have private time with them. So if you had to pick, who should feel shameful?
06 February, 2013
Why Too Many compliments don’t work… After watching the last couple of series of Take Me Out I have been promising this post, because many guys fell into this trap. It’s long over due. Guys when you give a woman too many compliments you rightly or wrongly come across as: -       needy -       having low self esteem -       desperate -       having a lack of confidence -       a wimp -       not genuine -       being in awe
07 January, 2013
Ok there's lots of things that annoy women about men, too many to count, just as I know there's lots about women that bug men. However here I'm just going to highlight 10 things that bug women I've come up with... 1. Being overly dominant When guys start telling women they can’t go here and there, or can’t wear that short skirt, it’s very unattractive. More fool the women that allow themselves to be dictated to! Men that behave like this are usually either insecure or a cheat. 2. Having a foul mouth Every other word being a swear word isn’t cool, and it’s a huge turn off. Guys think how you would feel about a woman who did the same? It’s not manly. It suggests a lack of education/intelligence to be so uncreative with words that you have throw swear words in everywhere.
04 October, 2012

Richard E. Grant: Actor, Director and Author. Richard has appeared in over 80 films and television programs, such as Withnail And I, The Scarlet Pimpernel, Jack & Sarah, L.A. Story, Dracula, The Hound Of The Baskervilles, Gosford Park & The Iron Lady. In 2005 he...

04 October, 2012
‘He’s too nice’ Guys don’t understand this and assume it’s very black and white and that women like a*@ holes. Some women yes, but it's only because they haven't stumbled across an alpha male who isn't an a*@ hole. I’ve discussed why this is because bad boys have traits that women like. See my post here…. http://www.rebeccadakin.com/bad-boys-verses-nice-guys/ You can be a desirable alpha male without being an arrogant, cocky idiot. Most women want an alpha male at some level, and those that are ‘too nice’ don’t have alpha male traits so end up as ‘friends’ with women. However it’s usually a one-way friendship where the guy because he’s so nice is giving everything but getting nothing in return. He hangs on in there being walked all over, hoping that one day she will realise that he’s always been there for her and that he is the love of her life. It will never ever happen, trust me! How do you know if you’re too nice? If one or more of these below apply to you, then it’s likely women see you as ‘too nice’.
31 August, 2012

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2187572/Anthea-Turner-agrees-meet-estranged-husband-Grant-Bovey-crisis-talks.html I don’t have any sympathy with this couple. Anthea was having an affair with Grant when they were both in relationships. I’m a firm believer in Kama and don’t believe anything good comes of relationships that are born out of deceit and infidelity. Even if...

16 August, 2012
50 Shades of Grey: With all the hype about 50 Shades of Grey trilogy of books, women all over the world are fantasising over the mysterious BDSM loving Billionaire Mr Grey. Lets look at the reasons why…
16 August, 2012
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