Why are women attracted to men that can dance?
Women see a man who can dance as confident, outgoing, fun, social and conscientious…
A good dancer can make dancing seem like foreplay. Many people say that how someone dances is an indication of how good he is in bed. I’m not sure that is entirely true. Guys that dance well with lots of fluid hip movement, it’s hard not to think sexual thoughts and imagine their thrust, however I believe you can be great in bed and not be a good dancer.
Equally I have observed the most geeky of dancers with women swarming round them because they are in their own little world and they are engaging and fun to watch. These guys will draw lots of women in. I’ve seen hot looking guys dancing on the dance floor desperate to be noticed but they are being ignored because all the women are round the one guy who has gone to the club on his own to dance and is throwing out some crazy ass moves. Now that takes balls and that is one of the reasons women are drawn in.
What’s attractive about people that dance, whether they are good or bad, are those that are dancing for themselves and not others. That ‘I don’t care how I look or who’s looking’ attitude is very sexy.
So what it boils down to is that it really isn’t about whether you can or cannot dance (so you can no longer use that excuse!) it’s having the balls if you can’t dance, to go crazy and exaggerate bad moves for effect, have fun and not care.
If you’re doing this and looking at women and thinking about sex and pulling them it will show in your body language and they won’t be interested, they are only interested if you act like you’re not. Make the ladies work for it to get your attention, even though you are dancing really badly. It creates more of a challenge, because they think ‘how dare he not be interested in me!’ if you are making people laugh that is a good thing! Its one of the top things women want in a man – the ability to make them laugh.
The great thing about dancing is that you don’t have to approach women, they approach you; so it’s great to help build confidence for those suffering from approach anxiety.
With regards to any type of professional dancing Salsa is very popular, it’s all about the men taking the lead, and as you know most women want a man who will take the lead. It’s a great dance to learn to help build confidence with women, and there’s always a shortage of men! Whatever you do though don’t appear unsure (even if you are), stand tall, walk and dance with purpose, let your body be loose and fluid, follow the rhythm, but make sure your grip and arms are firm and taking the lead.
Dancing is great way to build rapport and connection with women.
One of the scientific reasons for women being attracted to men that can dance has been suggested that “Dancing for humans could signal whether a male is fit because it requires the expenditure of a lot of energy.”
Throughout the animal kingdom examples abound of males performing courtship dances, attracting females with displays of health and skill.
There is preliminary data to show that better dancers are also healthier and more attractive, and they are exploring these ideas in further research studies.