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I went to a very interesting seminar the other weekend by Andy Harrington, who got me thinking about 'my why'. Why I do what I do, and what drives me to work as a Sexpert and help people with their relationships and sex lives? It's something...

Why Too Many compliments don’t work… After watching the last couple of series of Take Me Out I have been promising this post, because many guys fell into this trap. It’s long over due. Guys when you give a woman too many compliments you rightly or wrongly come across as: -       needy -       having low self esteem -       desperate -       having a lack of confidence -       a wimp -       not genuine -       being in awe
50 Shades of Grey: With all the hype about 50 Shades of Grey trilogy of books, women all over the world are fantasising over the mysterious BDSM loving Billionaire Mr Grey. Lets look at the reasons why…

One gripe I have when guys ask me out on dates is if they are coming to Nottingham they ask me where to go because they “don’t know the area”.

Not good enough. I’d go so far as to say that it’s almost a deal breaker (…I did say ‘almost’ :).

Why? Because what women want is a guy who’s a leader and resourceful, shows mental strength; and that’s attractive to women.

When a lady agrees to a date, this is where your chance to impress steps up a gear – she’s waiting to see what you come up with, and looking for you to ‘show case’ your attributes and leadership skills.

Bad boys verses nice guys: So why is it that men assume all women like bad boys? Because the bad boys actually have some of the traits women want. If they could have those traits in a nice guy then many would prefer the nice guys. Bad boys take the behaviour to the extreme so there’s a way to get a balance and be equally appealing, if not more so, to women. So nice guys listen up! There is a way to be a nice guy and get the girls if you man up on a few things. Lets look at the traits of bad boys…. So what are those traits? The first one is following on from my last post
I don’t know how many of you watch The Apprentice? I know you guys in the US may not be familiar with the show, but I want to share a powerful technique that someone used on there to collect women as potential customers for a ‘beauticians task’. In a nutshell, (for those that don’t know), The Apprentice is a bunch of people that are split into two groups and given a business task. With their team they have to create a business and make the most money to win the task and get a reward. Bear with me on this… This particular task was they had to set up a beauty parlour. In a busy shopping center one of the guys had to find clientele for the beauty shop. Being a bloke he was very unenthusiastic about the task, until he found a really cool technique that he repeatedly used to draw women into the beauticians – thus making his team the most money. What’s this got to do with dating? I hear you thinking. Well let me explain what he did. He went up to women and said “put your little finger out”, which every woman did, and then he put his finger out and linked them together, he then led them silently by their finger to the shop. Why did this work? Let me explain -