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Author: Rebecca Dakin

Lord exposes Sir Fred Goodwin super-injunction in Parliament - The Daily Telegraph

One side…

A man thinking with his nether region can be dangerous; Rationality and consequence go out of the window, and to be making big decisions he will not have been thinking clearly, because sex, especially in the context of an affair, will be giving him the thrill and excitement and cause major distraction.  His mind will be wandering to sex even more than usual. A man thinking about extra marital sex and acting upon sexual urges has a complete lack of self-control, and shouldn’t be making any big decisions that could prove wreckless. Because the affair was in his work place, his mind may never have been 100% on the job. This isn't the case for all men, it depends on the individual - but it can happen.

Premier League star who cheated with Imogen Thomas told his secret is safe as court tightens injunction

Read more: http://www.mirror.co.uk/

I am sick to death of hearing about cheating footballers. Who the hell do they think they are? Rumour has it is a well known fellow Welsh man.

So do I believe these people have the right to super injunctions? NO. I think they should be named and shamed.  Otherwise it's a big green light to carry on treating their wives and familes with disrespect. If you are a celebrity or someone in the public eye, you have to take the rough with the smooth. And press good or bad is part of the package. These type of cheaters will carry on cheating. They make a mockery of marriage. I find little sympathy for those women who stay in these marriages, even for the sake of the kids. How is it a good example to show your children that cheating is acceptable.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1370680/Peter-Crouch-visited-22-year-old-air-hostesss-apartment-Dubai-3am.html

Hmmmmm, if she wanted to 'fetch something' from her apartment why did Peter even go in?

I think in this case nothing probably happened, but why do footballers get themselves in such situations? Is it arrogance? I can do what I like because I earn stupid amounts of money, or is it because they are stereotypically 'not all that bright'? I believe that Peter is actually quite intelligent, so I can only assume it's the former - arrogance.

People like Peter, Ashley Cole, David Beckham and Wayne Rooney, selfishly disrespect and humiliate their women time after time, and yet these women still seem to have their rosy tinted glasses on. Is it the unwritten code that if you get involved with a footballer you have to accept that he cheats? And become a submissive Stepford Wife - turning a blind eye to their cheating, whilst hoping he doesn't get rumbled by the press, and if he does, praying it goes away quickly? Because it seems to me that these women accept this behaviour. It's no wonder they keep doing it.

Reference...  Top Gear's Jeremy Clarkson cheats on wife with pretty blonde during show tour - Daily Mirror

So the latest celebrity Jeremy Clarkson is allegedly reported for cheating with his wife of 18 years. Is this a shock? Not to me. Do I think any less of him? No. I will certainly still be watching the only ‘girl friendly’ car show that is  - Top Gear.

Having worked as an escort for 10 years it’s a tale I have heard many times; that guys get lonely when they travel.  Probably even more so if they are in a long term marriage; where they are more like ‘friends’ or business acquaintances’ than husband and wife.  Where that initial lust and sexual attraction may have faded on both sides. This in my opinion makes people crave intimacy more.

As an escort when I used to see married men, I often thought that there were probably many wives that suspected their men were having affairs or seeing escorts, but they actually were happy that they were because it kept them from being pestered for sex by their husbands. So they turned a blind eye.

I had an interesting conversation with a guy in the escort business the other day. I was discussing my new book 'Why Husbands Stray', and he said to me 'well it's not straying' meaning guys booking escorts, and his reason was because it wasn't an...

The first thing I want to say is... women cheat too! Ok? I knew you were thinking it ;-p I don't know or care who cheats more, there's many cheaters in both sexes. The reason my new book is titled Why Husband's Stray, and NOT Why Women or People Cheat (as some people suggested), is because my experience as an escort for ten years meant that I dated hundreds of men many of whom were married or in relationships, so my personal experience is with cheating men.
I had an amusing encounter with someone at the weekend that is a serial cheater. He would have been great material for my book, but sadly I couldn’t get anything of use out of him. What was interesting is that I could spot him as a cheater a mile off, yet he thought he was hiding it well. After dating hundreds of men as an escort I know they are easy to spot.  And I can sniff out BS a mile off ;-p