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Author: Rebecca Dakin

http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/us-gossip/kristen-stewart-issues-public-apology-1168958 Once again more Hollywood couples have succumbed to the temptations of infidelity. So what do their statements say about them? Kristen - 'I'm deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment I've caused to those close to me and everyone this has affected. This momentary indiscretion has jeopardised the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I'm so sorry.' Kristen’s first line is ‘the’ standard line for infidelity. It’s empty. Statements generally are contrived, impersonal and lack feeling and sincerity and emotion. However, she is focusing on how others feel and not on herself, which is a positive thing. The only personal thing here is that she’s mentioned her partner by name and her last sentence does show some remorse. But as with all infidelity, is it remorse at what she’s done, or remorse that she has been found out? She has played down the affair and is keen to mention that it was a ‘momentary indiscretion’, to imply that this was an impulsive affair and there were no feelings involved. Her use of the word ‘jeopardise’ means she is fully aware of the value of her partner and what was at stake here. In my opinion, although contrived, Kristen’s is the more heartfelt statement as she accepts responsibility for her actions, unlike Rupert....
26 July, 2012
Reference: http://www.dailystar.co.uk/posts/view/260395 I empathise with both parties in the Myleene Klass and Graham Quinn break up. Everyone is quick to judge without really knowing what the facts are. Once again the ‘other woman’ is being blamed for a marriage split. When are people going to take responsibility for their own marriages and their success/failure? I realize it’s easy for people to blame the other woman, but do they not see that it is excusing any bad behaviour on the man’s part? There are still no solid facts that he was having an affair, at the moment it’s rumours, so he and Sarah Robinson are being unfairly judged. A possible rumour that I read in one paper was that Myleene was sleeping with her children in her marital bed as well as Graham. If this story is true then I am not surprised he wanted out. Once children are in the marital bed, in most cases it’s a slippery slope to marriage/relationship destruction. Their sex life would be pretty much none existent. Hopefully this wasn’t true. However clearly there were problems in their relationship and it’s sad that they weren’t picked up on, addressed and dealt with. Many couples either both or one party, choose to put their head in the sand and ignore problems.
09 July, 2012

A few weeks ago I did some filming with Richard E Grant for a new documentary that’s due to be aired on BBC Worldwide in the Autumn. Richard was the perfect interviewer. In fact he was that good that I didn’t actually realize that the...

05 July, 2012
The other week I had an interview with Richard E Grant for a documentary for BBC Worldwide. Now you probably think that I’m uber confident, well I am in some situations and not in others – like many people. You might be able to speak to a boardroom full of people, but then not to a lady you spot in a bar that you like.
04 July, 2012
So your dates a week away, do you call/text? And how often? It’s good to be aware of the vibe and your connection. Sometimes when people are so focused on what they want to say, or what to say next they miss the chemistry/connection or lack of it. When you are speaking focus on what the person is saying and how they are saying it, try and analyze their voice, how does it sound? Is conversation easy? Is it flowing or hard work? Does she sound, nervous, excitable, happy, friendly, bored, interested, pissed off (have you touched a nerve?), rushed (bad time?), non communicative?
30 June, 2012
Do you do the 3 day rule? Message her straight away? It’s a minefield! Lol no, seriously, if the connection is there you shouldn’t be playing games. I think to message someone within 24 hours of having their number, shows assertiveness and genuine interest. If that puts someone off, then chances are they are the game playing type, and is that what you really want? My girlfriends top ‘bug bears’ when people take their number is the text message, ‘is it ok to call?’ Or ‘when is it convenient to call?’ Guys think they are being considerate but actually they are being indecisive and it show lack of assertiveness.
28 June, 2012
Following my ‘5 Step formula for the perfect Dating Profile’, I will analyze two match.com profiles below. My 5 Step formula: 1)    Photos, smiling, clear 3 minimum – face, full body and action 2)    Introduction – opening gambit 3)    What you offer 4)    What you are looking for 5)    Invitation to connect
22 June, 2012
One of my recent blog posts I discussed how we can’t keep doing the same things and expect different results. So what’s holding YOU back? Is it confidence? If so what are YOU doing to build it? This could be lack of confidence due to lack of experience in the bedroom, lack of confidence due to not feeling good enough, lack of confidence because of fear of rejection…. The list is endless. Confidence is one of the main things I can help you with on a One to One Session, because it’s not your lack of experience in the bedroom, or not actually being good enough, it’s your perception that this is what makes YOU undesirable, not actually what others think of you. Here’s the thing if I met a guy who was inexperienced in bed I’d think ‘great!’ Someone I can teach to be an amazing lover! Who isn’t stuck in his ways and thinks he’s great in bed when he isn’t. There’s this misconception that people that have a lot of sex must be very good at it – wrong! ......
06 June, 2012
So with so many things at our fingertips nowadays at the touch of a button on our phones and technical gadgets; emails, calls, texts, the weather report, satellite navigation, video, tv – we have all as a nation become somewhat lazy. Many people do the same thing day in and day out and wonder why their life isn’t changing and they aren’t getting what they want out of it. If you are sitting there thinking that the man/woman of your dreams will magically appear if you keep on with your day-to-day life then you could wait your whole life and it never happen!
29 May, 2012
Last weeks Grazia magazine had an article about a couple (Mark and Kirsty) who only have sex 3 times a year because they are so stressed about their lack of money. I was deeply concerned at the reference that this is ‘normal’ for couples in there 30’s. Mark and Kirsty’s marriage is in complete crisis and they both seem oblivious. They seem content (in my opinion – naïve) with the fact that they assume that everything will be back on track once they have money. I understand and empathise that they have deep financial worries however it’s no excuse to lose their intimacy and connection. They still eat because they need to survive, they still look after their son, because he needs to survive too, but they also need intimacy for their relationship to survive so why have they let it go in times of such dire crisis? This is when it’s needed the most!....
25 May, 2012
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