Rebecca Dakin Dating advice for Men: “She’s too good for me”

Guys do you recognize when you feel this way?

Here’s what happens when you consciously or sub consciously think this about your girlfriend/wife/partner…


1)   you feel angry at her for no reason

2)   you say things to put her down and make her feel bad

3)   you don’t compliment her or say anything nice

4)   you feel jealous

5)   you feel insecure

6)   you start arguments about silly things

7)   you start being ‘difficult’

8)   you feel moody and miserable

9)   you may be prone to drinking in excess

10) you start trying to control her, making it inconvenient/impossible for her to go out without you


Can you resonate with any of the behaviours above? Here’s some food for thought…

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“Using Language And Touch To Begin The Sexualization Process”

There’s a video here of me being a guinea pig for Mr Ross Jeffries 🙂

In my earlier post I discussed sleazy men, and on this short video clip Ross Jeffries shows how to sexualise with words and touch without being sleazy using basic NLP mirroring and matching techniques.

I found this information on line that explains in more detail Ross’s demonstration and suggests how this powerful technique can be used in other areas of our lives. This is incredibly powerful stuff.

Quote: ‘NLP Mirroring and Matching Techniques/The Importance of Rapport Building

Rapport building can be done by matching and mirroring a person’s expressions such as physiology that includes breathing,  posture, gestures and facial expressions; tonality that includes quality, pitch, speed and volume; and words that comprise of predicates used.

Rapport building skills can be used in any area of your life and on any person, as per Neuro-linguistic (NLP) courses. Rapport building might be required within your family, for your children or spouse. You can avoid conflicts with your spouse or better understand the thought processes of your child once you have developed a good rapport. It is very important in professional life as well, for getting along with superiors, subordinates and teammates. Rapport building is vital to group meetings, decision-making, or discussions where a good rapport can avoid conflicts, misunderstandings and arguments.  Using Neuro-linguistic training, you can establish a good rapport with your team leader or leader of a group.
After a strong rapport is built, you can better express your ideas and viewpoints to the leader, and the leader will be able to understand and acknowledge your skills and efforts.’


The spooky thing is, it really works! I had thought as a guinea pig I’d be immune to Ross’s powerful seduction techniques, but as you can see I’m clearly not. I turn into a giggley little girl! This stuff really works guys.

If you want to get the girls don’t be a sleaze ball, learn how to mirror and match, build rapport with women and they will respond in a positive way to your advances.

Dating Advice for Men – Be the leader

It’s a problem I hear my girlfriends moan about all the time. They don’t say to me “he’s not a leader”, but ultimately this is what they mean when they say… “he never suggests anything for us to do”,  “he never makes any plans in advance to see me”.

Women want excitement and adventure. Whilst spontaneous is good, making plans for the weekends and dates in advance shows a certain level of leadership and commitment (when I use the word commitment in this context I mean it as in shows you are committed to spending quality time with her and getting to know her).

It’s good to have a mix of the two. But as a guy be the one who shows leadership. Even women who are independent are ultimately impressed when a guy steps up to show leadership.

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