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Why Too Many compliments don’t work… After watching the last couple of series of Take Me Out I have been promising this post, because many guys fell into this trap. It’s long over due. Guys when you give a woman too many compliments you rightly or wrongly come across as: -       needy -       having low self esteem -       desperate -       having a lack of confidence -       a wimp -       not genuine -       being in awe
I’ve had a couple of guys recently asking me about what to talk to women about to avoid the conversation going dry. Remember my last post highlighting that only 7% of our communication is through words? Conversation is really is not what anyone should be getting hung up on. Be careful not to talk too much. If you’re worried about conversation I would suggest it’s because you talk too much when you should be listening. Because if you’re listening you wouldn’t be worried about what to say! :) It’s one of the biggest mistakes men (and women) make; talking about themselves too much.
What you have to remember is that most of what we communicate doesn’t come out of our mouth. 97% is non-verbal communication, leaving a measly 7% for our patter. With this in mind how come we get so hung up on what to say? I always feel disappointed when I hear the “my friend fancies you”. Straight away I make these assumptions about this ‘friend’ bearing in mind the fact the guy who likes me hasn’t said one word to me… I think, ‘he’s got no balls, he’s not a leader, he’s not assertive, he lacks confidence, he’s a coward, he’s immature.’