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Infidelity Advice for Men

I had an interesting conversation with a guy in the escort business the other day. I was discussing my new book 'Why Husbands Stray', and he said to me 'well it's not straying' meaning guys booking escorts, and his reason was because it wasn't an...

The first thing I want to say is... women cheat too! Ok? I knew you were thinking it ;-p I don't know or care who cheats more, there's many cheaters in both sexes. The reason my new book is titled Why Husband's Stray, and NOT Why Women or People Cheat (as some people suggested), is because my experience as an escort for ten years meant that I dated hundreds of men many of whom were married or in relationships, so my personal experience is with cheating men.
I have just started working with a gentleman who is cheating on his wife. With his consent I am documenting his situation, so that others can learn from it, and offering my advice and guidance, to hopefully save the marriage. First, here's a summary from Erik... I’ve been married 19 years and have two children, 16 & 14. I love my wife very much but I do not think that she loves me. Our relationship has never been great. We have difficulty communicating with each other. Prior to marriage for about 1 year into it, the physical relationship was good. Things started to change after that and I became dissatisfied with the frequency of sex. I had my first, one time, affair on a business trip in 1993 (married 1 1/2 years at that point). I confessed it to her and we began marriage therapy. The sex never really returned to a level where I was satisfied but I remained true for many years. In 1999, I had my second, one time, affair while on a business trip. This time I did not confess. In late 2006, I began a long-term affair with a woman I met through AshleyMadison.com. The relationship was fun and light hearted and consisted of sex once a week at a motel and meeting for coffee once a week. There were a lot of email, calls, and IM chats between us. The affair ended in mid- 2007 my family and I moved to another state.