16 Aug Mr Grey
50 Shades of Grey:
With all the hype about 50 Shades of Grey trilogy of books, women all over the world are fantasising over the mysterious BDSM loving Billionaire Mr Grey. Lets look at the reasons why…
He(’s)….
1) Assertive and pro active – no woman respects a push over, or a mentally weak man who’s ‘too nice’ – Blog post on the ‘too nice’ thang coming soon
2) Spontaneous – There’s something sexy and exciting about being spontaneous whether it’s sexual or doing something out and about
3) Planner – You need both traits for the perfect balance. Women hate not knowing when/if they will see a guy again. Planning ahead puts our mind at rest
4) Romantic – as a wealthy man Mr Grey can afford to be extravagant in his romantic gestures, but it’s just as romantic and alluring for a woman for their man to have put thought into any romantic gesture whether it’s a picnic on a park, a rowing boat and a bottle of bubbly, or leaving love notes around the house
5) Leader – he gives a lot of orders, but there’s something quite sexy about that – ‘come here’, ‘be ready for 8, I’m taking you out’
6) Control freak – (this can be a turn on for some women and a turn off for others, and obviously there’s various degrees of control and it depends on the intentions. When it’s manipulative and causes distress it’s not cool) It’s not something I’d recommend people try. If by nature you are a control freak you need to make sure the balance is right and that your partner/other half is happy with the level of control you are implementing into the relationship. Be mindful – is it control because you are insecure? Is it for your best interests or hers?
7) Mysterious – He doesn’t talk too much, and it takes her a while to get him comfortable to open up about his past. A level of mysteriousness is exciting for women and intriguing
8) Interested in her – I can’t emphasize how important this is. Women gauge a mans interest on how interested he is to really know her inside and out
9) Worships her – and makes her feel amazing, not just through his love making skills but by complimenting her and making sure she knows how much he worships and adores her
10) An experimental lover – Ok some of the stuff is hard core kink, but many women fantasize about being tied up and blind folded by a man they trust implicitly whilst he ravishes them. There’s something very sexy in the bedroom about giving someone complete control over what they do to your body
11) Protector – He wants to keep her safe. All women want, to feel protected, because ultimately many are looking for someone to father children
12) Jealous – but not overtly. A certain amount of jealousy shows that you care, but it shouldn’t be used to the extreme of making a scene
13) Loyal – He only has eyes for her, and she knows it. Every woman wants to feel, in the words of Rhianna, that she is ‘the only girl in the world’
14) Stability – own home/car and in his case, plane and helicopter!
15) Successful in business – this doesn’t necessarily need to be monetary related, you can have a successful business that isn’t earning loads of money, but it is still attractive to women
16) Wealthy – it is an attractive trait, but not on it’s own, and it’s not an essential
I’m not suggesting you need to be a BDSM, control freak billionaire but you’ll notice from my posts there are a few common themes here in what women are looking for.