Take this quiz to find out…

For every one that applies to you give yourself 1 point. Then tot up your score…
1.    You know what you want and you expect to be able to have it without developing yourself as a person. After all you think people should take you as you are or not at all

2.    You think you know best. If you can’t figure out your problems then no one else will be able to help

3.    You think if you see a therapist or coach that it is their job to ‘fix’ you during the time you spend with them and they shouldn’t require you to actually do anything – otherwise why would you pay someone?

4.    You haven’t got time to spend on self- development

5.    You expect dating and relationships to be easy

6.    You would rather cheat than end a relationship

7.    You would rather be unhappy than end a relationship

8.    You’re happy to ‘make do’

9.    You have decided online dating is a waste of time  

10. You’d rather chat on social media than approach and talk to a new person

11. Wholly committing and investing time and money in seeking someone to guide you on how to have better relationships and success dating seems a waste of time, after all if you wait long enough the man/woman of your dreams will magically appear and fall on your lap when you least expect it

12. You want to change your life, but you don’t actually change your life  

If you have answered yes to any of these, then you’re either in a relationship, but if you’re honest with yourself, not truly happy, or you’re single and looking or single and not officially looking however hoping that eventually your soul mate will appear before you at some point before you retire!



1-4 There’s no winners here. You’re lazy! However with a few tweaks you could be well on your way to finding relationship, love and dating happiness. If you want to discover how I can help you achive this then please get in touch. I’d love to hear from you.

5-8 Ok there’s no question about it, you are very lazy! There’s a lot to work on here if you want to achieve success and happiness in Love, dating and relationships. It is going to take an investment of time and patience. You get one shot at life, you can either ‘make do’ or choose to excell in all areas of your life and enjoy the happiness and fulfillment that comes from being in a healthy, loving mutually respectful relationship. If you feel the time is right and want to find out how I can be of assistance, contact me today!

9-12 Oh dear, you’re the laziest person ever! You must be really unhappy or bored with your life. If you ever want to experience the true happiness you deserve, if you get in touch with me, I’ll show you how.


Are you lazy?