International Womens Day

Regardless of gender we all have both Masculine and Feminine energy and it’s important that we understand and utilise both to enable us to experience true self acceptance, love and lasting happiness. In a world where many women can have it all – the successful career, family and social life, and manage or choose to become single mothers some running businesses or working at the same time, we have really honed our masculine side however the Feminine energy is getting lost.

The Divine Feminine is all about embracing and nurturing our female energy. However what is it and how do we do that?

Divine Feminine energy represents these aspects within the universe: life, renewal, birth, openness, restoration, love, nurturing, insight, wisdom, intuition, understanding, healing, receptivity, motherhood, the moon, sensuality and harmony. We need to connect to all those areas within ourselves to experience and utilise our Divine Feminine.

Here are 10 ways to connect with your Divine Feminine:

  1. Explore perception of womanhood in your culture and from your personal experience
  2. Cultivate love, compassion, forgiveness and openness towards self and others
  3. Meditate specifically to connect with your Divine Feminine. There are various meditations on You Tube for you to try
  4. Embrace, love and accept your body wholly and completely
  5. Explore if you have any resistance to being female on a spiritual, physical and mental level and with regards to how societies beliefs and any social conditioning
  6. Listen to your emotions, experience them and examine them. Get in touch with your intuition. Close down external distractions designed to numb you. For example T.V.
  7. Examine your perception of motherhood and your relationship with your mother. If there is resentment and anger there this will block your Feminine energy. Total forgiveness is essential and compassion helps facilitate this.
  8. Explore your sensuality – know your body get in tune with it. Know how you like to be touched. Connect intimately in mind and body with yourself and your partner. Communicate, and explore without shame or guilt.
  9. Collaborate with other women professionally and personally. Unite and explore how you can help each other grow.
  10. Get in touch with your creative side – whether it is through art, dance or written word


Our Divine energy does not need to be cultivated or created it is the core of our very being it’s just lost and obscured by negative thoughts, beliefs, actions and a lack of awareness.

To allow it to flourish we need to let go of all the negative beliefs and emotions attached to womanhood only then can we be truly free. It’s time to embrace our Divine Feminine and invite it to shine out of every pore of our being!

Wishing all women a very happy International Women’s Day. You are all loved and stronger than you know xo

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X Rated Ladies Night 2nd March – Ladies contact me today to secure your place

What started as an intimate group of ladies at my house has now moved to a full blown event to accomodate all the ladies wanting to come. The places are limited. The next one is to be held in Nottingham this Thursday 2nd March 7.30-9.30 pm. Only 9 spaces left!

If you’re interested to find out more, send me an email rebecca@rebeccadakin.com

I will also be demonstrating the full range of Satisfyers, the Satisfyer 2, Satisfyer Pro Penguin, Satisfyer Pro Delux and the Satisfyer Pro 2. Ladies you do not want to miss this. Award winning breakthrough clitoral stimulators using pressure air. Multiple orgasms guarenteed 😉

Are you curious?

Are you curious?

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Notts TV 6.30 Show tonight

I’m talking dating, mating and relating on Notts TV 6.30 show. What to do for nights in, nights out, and romantic gifts on Valentines day. No I didn’t try and plug any sex toys hehehe

Watch it or catch up on Demand here: https://nottstv.com/

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The Idiots Guide To Casual Sex – my first post for online magasine Fashion Beans

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Nowadays there are plenty of men and womne looking for casual no strings attached sex, but what’s the etiquette, and how do you go about it?

I give Fashion Beans my 5 Top Tips, from choosig your sex partner to calling time when you’re ready to move on…

http://www.fashionbeans.com/2017/the-idiots-guide-to-casual-sex/

New Series of Sex Pod starts weekly tonight – 5 Star 10pm or catch it online

Tonight myself and other Sex Experts face a new batch of youngsters and as we give them open and frank sex advice and answer all their questions about sex. If you haven’t seen it yet, then do have a watch. It’s aimed at 18-25 year olds and covers both straight and gay/lesbian sex advice, however everyone can learn something. There are explicit sex demonstrations (check out the video here for an idea of what to expect featuring he stunning Chloe Davis) so you actually get to see our advice in action 😉 This is a ground breaking sex education show like no other. If you miss it you can catch up online here: http://www.channel5.com/show/sex-pod

Sexless Marriages can they work?

Check out my expert opinion in tomorrows daily Mirror…

http://www.mirror.co.uk/

Full blog post coming soon….

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Santa’s naughty list – Adult gift ideas & Stocking Fillers

If you’re over 18 then the only list you wanna be on this Christmas is Santa’s naughty list!

I’ve been gathering and testing new products this week for my boutique, and there’s some very exciting new toys and sexy stuff.

Here are my 12 days of Christmas, 12 gift ideas for those who enjoy some adult fun.

Christmas is an extremely stressful time of year, so it is super important to make sure that you keep up the intimacy, flirting and sex going when you get the opportunity. Sex is a stress buster! And if you’re single this Christmas then there is no reason why you shouldn’t be having lots of fun too 😉

If you want to get your hands on any of the products I have mentioned in the video then contact me today as i’m back at the warehouse Thursday 15th picking up more orders.

Vibrators, books, games, love potions, lubes and bondage bits have all made my top 12 naughty gift ideas. Watch the video to find out more and find out about your special Christmas offer 🙂

 

This year be Naughty…. X Rated fun for the ladies

X Rated fun this Christmas

X Rated fun this Christmas

Ho ho ho 😉 Calling all the ladies on Santas naughty list!!

Due to popular demand I’m doing a December Masterclass just in time for Christmas. What better gift you can give him than the gift of pleasure 😉

I have the usual 10 spaces available for my X Rated night.

Send me a message today with your email address and I’ll send you full details of the event to be held on Sunday the 11th December.

Here’s some of the feedback from my previous nights –
‘I think everyone would be at ease in your classes’ Louise
‘I wasn’t sure what to expect however I am so glad I came I wasn’t expecting for it to be so much fun’ Keeley
‘I was apprehensive being quite a shy person and not knowing anyone (after the friend that invited me bailed out!), however you put me at ease straight away, and everyone was so friendly’ Emma
‘Fun, interesting and classy!’ Stacey

This class is for those who are experienced and want some pro tips to try, those with some experience who want to try new techniques and refine their existing technique, and for the complete novice, who wants to start experimenting.

The class is fun, informative and educational and is packed with content. I will have my flip chart to take you through things step by step.

Whatever your level you will learn something new to try at home.

Remember I have only 10 spaces per class and they book out fast so register your interest today!

My Sexpert advice in this weeks Reveal on how Katie Price can get her sex life back on track

Check out this weeks Reveal for my Sexpert advice on Katie Price and Kieran Haylers relationship.

Infidelity is challenging for any relationship, however add in being betrayed by your two best friends and finding out your partner has a sex addiction, and that infidelity is magnified to a level to cause maximum emotional turmoil.

It’s not surprising that Katie and Kieran’s relationship hasn’t fully recovered from both of these challenging situations. A healthy relationship is based on trust, and without that you are left with various levels of a toxic relationship. By toxic I mean one that is emotionally damaging to everyone in it.

Kieran is still being punished for his behaviour, (however lets remember that most couples wouldn’t survive this level of betrayal). Katie is a fighter and she wants to fix things and make them right, she doesn’t want another relationship to fail. This is a feeling myself and many will relate to, especially those like Katie who are very successful in so many other areas of their lives.

The power balance has always been out of synch with Katie playing the dominant role from the beginning (which unconsciously many successful women do), and guys can feel intimidated and emasculated by this. His sex addiction and messing around with her best friends gave him a feeling of being in control, feeling powerful whilst offering a temporary release from the pressure of trying to live up to the percieved expectations of Katie and trying to maintain some of his masculinity.

Neither party is getting their needs met currently, so to move forwards they have to communicate their needs candidly, support each other and unite, and this needs to be done behind closed doors.

People want to be around people that make them feel good, so if Kieran either has his own insecurities and/or feels like Katie makes him feel not good enough, he will be withdrawing more and more into himself if he feels like he has no one to talk to. I imagine that he is feeling quite lonely right now. Katie’s outlet is to publically talk about their sex life and her distrust in her talks, interviews and books, however he has no outlet for his feelings. Every time Katie talks about Kieran’s infidelity, she relives, reaffirms it and this keeps the anger alive and very much in the present.

The problem is to move forwards she has to fully and wholly forgive him and let go, and she’s not ready to do that yet, and may never be ready to.

True forgiveness is key, combined with compassion and love. I really wish them both the very best.

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I Talk Sex, Masturbation, Orgasm & Girl sex with The Women’s Institute

Last week I unleashed my new talk on Nottingham City’s Women’s Institute ladies. It was their most successful night of the year so far with a record turn out of over 30 ladies, of all ages from 21 to 70! They were literally queuing out of the door.

There’s a misconception that all the Women’s Institute do is make jam and cakes and drink tea. I can assure you this wasn’t the case; whilst we did have a delicious array of cakes, we also quaffed boozy Cosmopolitans whilst I talked about sex: losing my virginity, masturbation, orgasm and my decade as an escort!

The W.I. are very supportive of sex workers, which goes to show what an open minded bunch of women they really are.

I wanted to create a talk to deliver in synergy with the message of my new book. Which is to empower women and make them feel good about their sexuality, feel like they are doing the right things in the bedroom, whilst encouraging them to try new things in a way that’s accessible to all women, not just the ones who are super confident.

From the feedback I got I nailed it! I just need to decide what to call my talk. Any ideas?

Lets talk about sex

Lets talk about sex

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