This year be Naughty…. X Rated fun for the ladies

X Rated fun this Christmas

X Rated fun this Christmas

Ho ho ho 😉 Calling all the ladies on Santas naughty list!!

Due to popular demand I’m doing a December Masterclass just in time for Christmas. What better gift you can give him than the gift of pleasure 😉

I have the usual 10 spaces available for my X Rated night.

Send me a message today with your email address and I’ll send you full details of the event to be held on Sunday the 11th December.

Here’s some of the feedback from my previous nights –
‘I think everyone would be at ease in your classes’ Louise
‘I wasn’t sure what to expect however I am so glad I came I wasn’t expecting for it to be so much fun’ Keeley
‘I was apprehensive being quite a shy person and not knowing anyone (after the friend that invited me bailed out!), however you put me at ease straight away, and everyone was so friendly’ Emma
‘Fun, interesting and classy!’ Stacey

This class is for those who are experienced and want some pro tips to try, those with some experience who want to try new techniques and refine their existing technique, and for the complete novice, who wants to start experimenting.

The class is fun, informative and educational and is packed with content. I will have my flip chart to take you through things step by step.

Whatever your level you will learn something new to try at home.

Remember I have only 10 spaces per class and they book out fast so register your interest today!

My Sexpert advice in this weeks Reveal on how Katie Price can get her sex life back on track

Check out this weeks Reveal for my Sexpert advice on Katie Price and Kieran Haylers relationship.

Infidelity is challenging for any relationship, however add in being betrayed by your two best friends and finding out your partner has a sex addiction, and that infidelity is magnified to a level to cause maximum emotional turmoil.

It’s not surprising that Katie and Kieran’s relationship hasn’t fully recovered from both of these challenging situations. A healthy relationship is based on trust, and without that you are left with various levels of a toxic relationship. By toxic I mean one that is emotionally damaging to everyone in it.

Kieran is still being punished for his behaviour, (however lets remember that most couples wouldn’t survive this level of betrayal). Katie is a fighter and she wants to fix things and make them right, she doesn’t want another relationship to fail. This is a feeling myself and many will relate to, especially those like Katie who are very successful in so many other areas of their lives.

The power balance has always been out of synch with Katie playing the dominant role from the beginning (which unconsciously many successful women do), and guys can feel intimidated and emasculated by this. His sex addiction and messing around with her best friends gave him a feeling of being in control, feeling powerful whilst offering a temporary release from the pressure of trying to live up to the percieved expectations of Katie and trying to maintain some of his masculinity.

Neither party is getting their needs met currently, so to move forwards they have to communicate their needs candidly, support each other and unite, and this needs to be done behind closed doors.

People want to be around people that make them feel good, so if Kieran either has his own insecurities and/or feels like Katie makes him feel not good enough, he will be withdrawing more and more into himself if he feels like he has no one to talk to. I imagine that he is feeling quite lonely right now. Katie’s outlet is to publically talk about their sex life and her distrust in her talks, interviews and books, however he has no outlet for his feelings. Every time Katie talks about Kieran’s infidelity, she relives, reaffirms it and this keeps the anger alive and very much in the present.

The problem is to move forwards she has to fully and wholly forgive him and let go, and she’s not ready to do that yet, and may never be ready to.

True forgiveness is key, combined with compassion and love. I really wish them both the very best.

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I Talk Sex, Masturbation, Orgasm & Girl sex with The Women’s Institute

Last week I unleashed my new talk on Nottingham City’s Women’s Institute ladies. It was their most successful night of the year so far with a record turn out of over 30 ladies, of all ages from 21 to 70! They were literally queuing out of the door.

There’s a misconception that all the Women’s Institute do is make jam and cakes and drink tea. I can assure you this wasn’t the case; whilst we did have a delicious array of cakes, we also quaffed boozy Cosmopolitans whilst I talked about sex: losing my virginity, masturbation, orgasm and my decade as an escort!

The W.I. are very supportive of sex workers, which goes to show what an open minded bunch of women they really are.

I wanted to create a talk to deliver in synergy with the message of my new book. Which is to empower women and make them feel good about their sexuality, feel like they are doing the right things in the bedroom, whilst encouraging them to try new things in a way that’s accessible to all women, not just the ones who are super confident.

From the feedback I got I nailed it! I just need to decide what to call my talk. Any ideas?

Lets talk about sex

Lets talk about sex

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